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SleeplessAndy
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Donnie wrote on 19-10-2009 07:50 PM

I've said previously I now have different views about "love". I hate the word and it's so cheap and means fuck all.

I won't be saying it again to anyone unless I am about to get married.

The word might be cheap, but the feeling most certainly isn't. I know we have a few non-believers amongst our blessed flock, but I pray they will one day be saved. Wink

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:49 PM

I personally wouldn't be happy to spend my life with a person I just happened to meet along the way.

Humans are so easily kidded as to what is good for us, and we lack awareness of our limitations.

AS IF somebody you meet now will grow and change in exactly the same way you do, for the rest of your lives. lol It's fine if both parties are pretty manilla characters, I guess.

Who said romance is dead?

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:49 PM

I personally wouldn't be happy to spend my life with a person I just happened to meet along the way.

How else are you gonna meet then???? Confused

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:52 PM

Again, I completely agree.

I think it's pretty sad that people try to paint people as "unromantic" just because they say such things. It may crush their naive dreams of love, but that's their fault for being so naive in the first place.

In the past I've been CONVINCED I loved girls who afterwards I could tell I blatantly didn't.

Little clue for you there...

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:52 PM

Humans are shite at making such choices, let alone anything more complex like how relationships will change over 30 years.

Now :

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:49 PM

I personally wouldn't be happy to spend my life with a person I just happened to meet along the way.

How else are you gonna meet then???? Confused

You've misunderstood. I'm not suggesting there are better ways to meet, but rather your choice of spouse will be largely dictated by chance situations and meetings. Not a very good way of exploring all there is to offer.

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rogerbj wrote on 19-10-2009 07:52 PM

Who said romance is dead?

Right on cue...

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:52 PM

I think it's pretty sad that people try to paint people as "unromantic" just because they say such things. It may crush their naive dreams of love, but that's their fault for being so naive in the first place.

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:47 PM

Not nearly as sorry as I feel for you if you blindly believe in "love" and then get burned over and over. Laughs out loud

I've never been 'in love', its not something that I believe in blindly or get burnt over and over.
Is that your problem? Do you fear the rejection of being in love?

Anyway, there is a difference in believing blindly in love and feeling that you would only ever feel the person you are with is the 'silver medal'.
For that I really do feel sorry for you.
To truely believe that any partner means you must be 'settling' is something that really does make me feel sad for you.

I love my friends, not despite their 'flaws' but because of them it makes them who they are.
I also believe that most humans have a great capacity for love.
But not all. I know some other guys who are like you, and it does make me sad. Frown

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SleeplessAndy wrote on 19-10-2009 07:54 PM

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:52 PM

Again, I completely agree.

I think it's pretty sad that people try to paint people as "unromantic" just because they say such things. It may crush their naive dreams of love, but that's their fault for being so naive in the first place.

In the past I've been CONVINCED I loved girls who afterwards I could tell I blatantly didn't.

Little clue for you there...

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DMX wrote on 19-10-2009 07:52 PM

Humans are shite at making such choices, let alone anything more complex like how relationships will change over 30 years.

Now :

s/Humans are/I am

Yes, because nobody else has ever been conned by love!

You're now married to your first ever gf, right? Wink

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